Betrayal is often the final nail in the coffin of a relation. Be it a spur of the moment, dissatisfaction in the relation, sexual dissatisfaction or lost connection, nothing can justify infidelity!
Betrayal is not only about sleeping around with another person. The day you start hiding things from your partner is the day you start walking in the lane of betrayal. Betrayal unleashes devastating consequences and is often the ultimate deal-breaker; but whether it’s for the sake of love, children or family pressure couples often try to give their relationship a second chance.
Though the possibilities of mending a broken relationship and healing a broken heart look much deemed but love, perseverance and genuine guilt helps in calming down the mental breakdown of the other person and gradually rebuilds the pillars of a strong relationship.
As the saying goes “to err is human”, so if you got drifted in this walk of life here are a few tips that might help you to get things back on track:
Acknowledge your mistake
It takes a brave heart to admit your mistakes but there is nothing wrong with admitting your mistake. Unless you acknowledge your fault you would never be able to mend it.
Be sorry from the depth of your heart
A little empathy goes a long way. Try to see and feel things from the other person’s perspective. How devastating it might be to discover the betrayal of a loved one! All this makes no sense unless you feel the pain, agony and anger of the other person.
Never argue to justify your mistake
Guys, this does not work at all! No matter how much logic you try to put in it but nothing can justify betrayal. Own your mistakes and make amends to never repeat them.
Give time and space
Don’t expect a mere sorry would turn things back to normal again. It takes pursuance and perseverance to fill the gap and regain the lost trust.
Focus on the other person’s happiness
Many times we tend to become selfish, looking out for things we want in life. While the basic essence of a relationship should be looking out for each other selflessly.
Take responsibility and fulfil them
Your relationship and your family is your primary responsibility. Never run away from things that you are supposed to do. Be brave, take decisions, and look out for each other.
Work your magic
There must be a magical spark that once brought you close. Make efforts bring back the lost charm in the relationship. No matter what age you are, there are always new things to be discovered and new ways to woo your partner.
Never ever repeat your mistakes
You do it once, it’s a mistake, you do it again it’s a crime.
If you are lucky in love, nothing gives more pleasure to look back at the treasure of memories. Starting from roots, building a family, overcoming obstacles and most importantly sticking by each other’s side even at the darkest hours that’s the accomplishment one should aim for in this voyage of life.