8 Proven Tips for Keeping Your Wife Happy: A Husband’s Guide

For centuries, men have been trying to discover ways to make their wives happy. While most have succumbed to the conclusion that a happy wife is a myth’. The wise and intelligent men have concluded that a happy wife means a happy life. So, after a bit of research and study, I have finally found the answer to the question of the millennium

– How to make your wife happy?

Well, honestly, it doesn’t need rocket science to make your wife happy.

Most of the time, it’s the little things that matter the most in a relationship. A bit of thoughtfulness, a bit of appreciation, a bit of care, and a lot of support – that’s all she wants. You don’t have to bring her diamonds; the simplest things make the biggest difference. 

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How to make your wife happy?

1. Communication is the key

Most men lack the patience to be good listeners. A woman undergoes massive transformations, both physically and emotionally. From being a pampered princess, she blossomed into a woman and a mother. 

Be her patient listener. Don’t judge her, don’t lecture her, don’t give her advice. All she wants is to vent out just like you do. When she is done talking just give her a hug and that’s all she needs! 

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2. Be her biggest cheerleader

Nothing makes a woman happier than a husband who supports her. In today’s modern world, women are shattering barriers and making their own place at the table. Though they make it look like a walk in the park, it really isn’t. 

Celebrate her small wins, listen to her big dreams, motivate her when she doubts herself and hold her up when her feet falter. Holding up the fort of a family is a very demanding job, so make sure to lend her your hand.

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3. Intimacy is important 

More than sex woman wants intimacy!

Intimacy is not just sex. It’s about thinking about her, talking to her, caressing her, holding her hand proudly, giving her a kiss on the head, or giving her a hug before she leaps out of bed. Regular body contact is very important for a healthy and happy marriage.

Intimacy also means talking and sharing things that you are scared to talk about, trusting each other, and being each other’s best friends. Intimacy doesn’t mean magically understanding each other, but it means you talk and listen to each other.

Intimacy is rare but beautiful. 

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4. Share the load

In a modern family, gender does not decide your roles in the family. So, make sure to strike a balance that you both can enjoy. There is nothing more charming than a man helping his wife do the daily chores. 

Help her with the dishes or lend a hand while cooking. Take her out for dinners and help her out with the kids. Help the kids with their homework or read them a story at bedtime. 

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5. Be loyal to her

Marriages are built on commitment. This means you need to avoid the temptations that can rock the foundation of your relationship. It’s not always another woman. Sometimes it’s the alcohol, smoking, or a habit that’s not healthy. 

Never ever cheat on her, once the trust is gone, it’s never going to come back. And this is going to wreck the peace of her mind. So, give her the confidence that she is your only one!

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6. Don’t be the possessive prisoner

It may sound cool in the movies but possessiveness in real life is the poison to the mind. If you really want your wife to be happy then give her your trust. Until and unless there is something to be worried about don’t create scenes in your head. 

The colleague at work is just a colleague, her school friends are just friends. Having male friends doesn’t make your wife unfaithful. Rather than shouting and accusing, talk to her and tell her how much she means to you. 

7. Talk about the money matters

When it comes to finances, it shouldn’t be only one person’s decision. Talk about your finances, savings, investments, and planning. A woman needs a sense of stability and security in a relationship and by talking to her about your plans, you can give her the peace she seeks.

8. Take her out on dates 

After marriage, dating shouldn’t stop. She is not just the mother of your children or daughter of your parents, she is still the beautiful girl you married. Take her out on the weekends, go for a walk together in the evenings, go to the movies, and bring her gifts.

Marriage is a romantic relationship. So, make an effort to keep the spark alive. Don’t take her for granted and never forget to appreciate all the things, big and small, she does for you!

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Your takeaway!

You don’t have to scratch your head, thinking of ways to make your wife happy. Just a little mindfulness, love, care, compliments, and kindness – that’s all it takes to make her happy.