I’ve seen a lot in my years as an Ayurvedic doctor. People come to me tired, anxious, and out of balance. They want the latest medicine, the new miracle cure. But often, what they need is something much simpler. Something that’s been around for thousands of years.
They need to learn how to touch themselves with love.
In Ayurveda, we call it abhyanga—the practice of massaging your body with warm oil. It’s not complicated. You don’t need any special equipment or training. Just you, some oil, and your own two hands.
But the effects, when done consistently, can be profound. I’ve seen it reduce stress, improve sleep, boost immunity, and restore a sense of balance to the entire system.
In a world that’s increasingly complex and chaotic, there’s power in simplicity. And there are few things simpler or more powerful than the healing touch of your own hands.
So if you’re feeling lost, if you’re feeling out of balance, start there. With something simple. Something true.
Start with abhyanga.
What is Abhyanga?
Abhyanga is the Ayurvedic practice of massaging the body with warm oil. This can be done by oneself (self-massage) or by an Ayurvedic therapist. The Sanskrit word “sneha” can be translated as both “oil” and “love”—and in Ayurveda, it is believed that giving yourself a massage with oil is a profound act of self-love.
While many people in the West think of massage as an occasional luxury or indulgence, in Ayurveda, regular self-massage is part of the daily routine and an essential component of self-care. As the ancient Ayurvedic text, the Charaka Samhita, says: “The body of one who uses oil massage regularly does not become affected much, even if subjected to injury or strenuous work.”
The Benefits of Abhyanga
So what exactly are the benefits of this simple but powerful practice? Modern research is now beginning to confirm what Ayurveda has long asserted—that abhyanga has a wide range of positive effects:
Reduces stress and anxiety
A 2011 study found that a 20-minute massage significantly reduced stress and anxiety in nurses working in intensive care units. For many of my patients struggling with anxiety, I’ve seen regular self-massage help to settle their nervous systems and cultivate a sense of groundedness and peace.
Improves sleep
If you struggle with insomnia or disturbed sleep, self-massage may help. A 2015 study on postmenopausal women found that massage therapy resulted in significantly better sleep quality. I always recommend abhyanga in the evenings as part of a calming wind-down routine.
Boosts immunity
Ayurveda has long seen abhyanga as a powerful tool for strengthening the immune system. A 2010 study confirmed that massage boosts white blood cell count and enhances immune function. In my practice, I’ve found it to be a wonderful therapy for those with weakened immunity.
Moisturizes and rejuvenates the skin
In Ayurveda, our skin is not just a covering—it is an organ of detoxification, and absorption, and an important point of interface between our internal and external environments. The act of massaging with oil helps to loosen ama or toxins, stimulate circulation, and allow the oil to penetrate and rejuvenate even the deepest tissues. I can always tell which of my patients has been doing their daily massage—their skin has a radiant glow that comes from the inside out!
Calms the doshas
According to Ayurveda, we each have a unique constitution or ratio of the three doshas—vata, pitta, and kapha. When our doshas are out of balance, either singly or in combination, we start to develop symptoms of ill health. Abhyanga helps to balance excess vata and pitta and can calm Kapha as well when done with invigorating strokes.
How to Do Abhyanga
The beauty of abhyanga is that once you learn the basic technique, it is a practice that requires no special equipment and that you can do in the comfort of your own home. Here are my tips for getting started:
1. Choose the right oil
In general, those with more vata in their constitutions do well with sesame oil, pittas with coconut oil, and kaphas with lighter oils like sunflower. However, the best oil for you may vary depending on the season and any imbalances you may be experiencing. Consult with an Ayurvedic practitioner to get personalized advice.
2. Warm the oil
Using warm oil allows it to penetrate the tissues more deeply. Simply place the bottle in a mug of hot water until it reaches a comfortable temperature. Always test the oil on your inner wrist first to make sure it’s not too hot.
3. Massage the oil into your skin using long strokes on your limbs and circular motions on your joints
Start at your extremities and work toward the middle of your body. Use lighter pressure over sensitive areas like your heart and abdomen. I generally recommend spending at least 5-10 minutes on self-massage.
4. Let the oil soak in for 5-20 minutes before showering it off in warm water
If you’re short on time, you can massage the oil in and shower immediately after. But ideally, give yourself at least a few minutes for the oil to absorb. To avoid making a mess, do your massage in the bathroom or designate an old towel and robe to wear.
5. Make abhyanga part of your daily routine
Like anything, abhyanga has the most benefit when done consistently over time. Try to incorporate it as a non-negotiable part of your daily routine, like brushing your teeth. The best time is in the morning before your shower, but if evenings are better for you, there’s a benefit to that too. The key is to find a time that works with your schedule and stick with it!
The Power of Loving Touch
As a practitioner of Ayurveda, I have come to believe that one of the most powerful medicines we have is loving touch—both from others and from ourselves. In a world where many of us are touch-deprived, the simple act of anointing ourselves daily with warm oil can be a profound reminder of our worthiness and our capacity to heal ourselves.
I encourage you to try abhyanga for yourself and see what benefits you notice. Remember, like any new habit, it may feel awkward or uncomfortable at first. But with time and consistency, it can become a nourishing and joyful practice that supports your health on every level—mind, body, and spirit.
2 comments
Very Simple,Very Effective .
Thanks for sharing & Inspiring naturalists!!
Appreciate your way of reviving ,easily afordable ,useful & forgottn Indian practices.
Your efforts & work are valuable & priceless
Pls keep going !!
Your words fill my heart with gratitude and renewal. In a world that often chases the latest trend or quick fix, it is voices like yours that remind me why I do this work—to help us remember the simple, timeless wisdom that is our birthright. Abhyanga is a gift from our ancestors, a precious thread that connects us to the healing power within ourselves and the natural world around us. By oiling our bodies with love and reverence, we not only nourish our physical health but also cultivate a deep sense of belonging and connection. So thank you for seeing the value in these ancient practices. For understanding that true wealth is not measured in material things but in the vitality of our bodies, the peace of our minds, and the joyfulness of our spirits. Thank you sir.