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Why do I get sick and others don’t? A Bangalore Doctor’s Guide to Understanding Individual Health Differences

The human body contains 37.2 trillion cells, yet it takes just one receptor gone rogue to make you question everything. Last Tuesday in my clinic, a million-dollar startup founder mourned her simplest loss: Veena Stores’ coconut chutney! A marathon runner cursed her knees. A teenager traced the acne map across her cheeks while her clear-skinned mother watched helplessly. Three different stories, one haunting question: “Why is my body betraying me?”

Here’s what treating 2,00,000 patients across twenty-five years in Bangalore has taught me: Your body is not betraying you – it’s telling you a story written in the ink of evolution. It is a story where every sensitivity is a survival strategy, every quirk a carefully preserved genetic code. Recent research from Stanford shows that even identical twins, sharing 99.9% DNA, can process the same spicy rasam as differently as Bangalore traffic processes rain.

When you watch others devour street food while you nurse your third antacid or lie awake at 3 AM while your family’s snores echo like a symphony of contentment, remember this: Science has discovered hundreds of ways your body can process a single hormone. Normal is not a destination. It’s a myth we need to outgrow.

Last week, a CEO walked into my clinic, her Rolex glinting under fluorescent lights. Her voice broke as she described how a simple flight from San Francisco had left her ears feeling like they’d been stabbed with knitting needles. “My entire team flew business class,” she whispered, “but I’m the only one who spent the next two days in agony.”

On the same evening, a teenager slumped in my consultation chair, her fingertips unconsciously tracing the constellation of acne across her cheeks. “My mother’s skin glows like the moon,” she said. “Mine looks like the surface of Mars.”

Then there was the Swiggy executive who hadn’t tasted biryani in three years because his stomach “turns into Bangalore traffic during peak hours” at the mere sight of spices. His family runs a restaurant.

Science tells us we’re 99.9% genetically identical to every other human on Earth. But oh, that 0.1% – it contains multitudes.

Recent research from Stanford’s Medical Center revealed something extraordinary: identical twins, raised in the same home, eating the same food, breathing the same air, can have immune systems as different as Bangalore’s weather and Chennai’s. A 2023 breakthrough study showed that even our gut bacteria – trillions of tiny organisms influencing everything from our mood to our metabolism – are as unique as our fingerprints.

Think of your body as a bespoke piece of software. While everyone else seems to be running on standard Windows, you operate on a custom-coded system that processes inputs differently. It’s not a bug – it’s a feature.

I have spent decades listening to patients whisper, “Why me?” like a prayer. Today, I will show you why that question, though it feels like a burden, might be your superpower…

Pooja (name changed), a young professional who just landed at Kempegowda International Airport, clutching her ear in pain while her family breezes through immigration. Or think of Ram (name changed), whose morning walks in Agriculture University Park are interrupted by asthma attacks when the temperature drops while other joggers run past without a wheeze. Like many others, their stories portray medical mysteries that seem cruelly selective.

The answer lies in the “Biological Symphony”—each of us is an instrument playing a unique tune. Just as no two Bangalore tech startups are identical, no two human bodies react the same way to environmental triggers, foods, or medications. Our bodies are more complex than the most intricate algorithm written in our city’s tech parks.

Let’s talk about ear pain during flights, a condition doctors call barotrauma. Some people’s Eustachian tubes, the tiny passages that regulate ear pressure, are as narrow as Bangalore’s old city lanes, while others are as wide as the ORR. This anatomical difference, inherited like a family heirloom, determines who grabs their ears in pain during landing and who doesn’t.

The sinusitis sufferer who dreads Bangalore’s weather changes has sinuses as sensitive as our city’s lakes—responding to every environmental ripple. Like our city’s infrastructure, their mucous membranes might be more susceptible to pressure changes and irritants. Research from the Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology shows that genetic variations in immune response can make some people up to 80% more likely to develop chronic sinusitis.

That burning sensation after spicy food? It’s like having a different version of Taste Buds’ software installed. Recent studies from the International Journal of Gastroenterology reveal that some people have twice as many TRPV1 receptors – the molecular equivalent of fire alarms – in their digestive system. Their stomach reacts to a single green chilli like a ghost pepper festival.

The menopausal symptoms that affect one sister while sparing another? Think of it as different mobile phones running on the same network – some handle the transition smoothly, while others struggle with every update. Research published in Menopause International shows that genetic variations in estrogen receptors can cause up to a 300% difference in symptom severity.

Take Maya, whose acne map shifts daily while her family glows with clear skin. Her oil glands, triggered by the same hormones that barely affect her sister, launch breakouts with brutal precision. Recent research in the Journal of Dermatology reveals why: some people’s skin carries twice the androgen receptors, turning normal hormone fluctuations into inflammatory storms. It’s like having overclocked sensors – what her family’s skin ignores, hers reads as a five-alarm alert.

The diabetes question particularly resonates in our city, where Type 2 diabetes rates have skyrocketed faster than our real estate prices. Even without a family history, factors like epigenetics – how our environment influences our genes – play a crucial role. It’s like having a predisposition to catch every bug in your code, even though you are following the same development practices as your colleagues.

Weight gain, that stubborn companion that chooses some while ignoring others, is like having a different metabolic algorithm. Recent research in the New England Journal of Medicine shows that genetic variations can affect calorie-burning efficiency by up to 50%. Some bodies are like fuel-efficient hybrid cars, while others burn through calories like vintage gas-guzzlers.

The knee pain striking teachers who stand for the same duration reminds me of building materials – some develop wear and tear faster than others. The Journal of Rheumatology indicates that collagen-type variations can make some joints as delicate as crystal glasses while others remain sturdy as steel.

Sleep patterns? They’re as varied as Bangalore’s street layouts. Some brains are wired like efficient metro lines, while others resemble complicated neighbourhood shortcuts. Research shows that mutations in circadian rhythm genes can make some people natural night owls while others rise with the sun.

And yes, even libido variations have scientific backing. Like different devices running on varying battery capacities, hormone receptors and neurotransmitter levels can create significant variations in sexual desire and function.

For the asthmatic dreading Bangalore winters, their airways are like sensitive instruments responding to every environmental note. The British Medical Journal recently published findings showing that genetic variations can make some people’s airways up to five times more reactive to temperature changes.

 Your body is not making mistakes – it’s executing precise genetic code written across generations. A groundbreaking study in Nature Genetics revealed that even a single DNA variation can cascade into thousands of unique biological responses. You are not defective; you’re running custom software in a world of mass-produced programs.

Scientists mapped thousands of genetic variants that influence how your body processes everything from coffee to Karwar fish curry. Do you have headaches after rain? A specific gene variant, TRPM8, found in 23% of South Asians, makes nerve endings hypersensitive to barometric pressure changes. Do you have spice intolerance? Researchers at NIMHANS recently identified 47 distinct receptor variations determining whether your stomach treats jeera rice like comfort food or chemical warfare.

 We’re moving from “Why me?” to “Wow !” The Human Genome Project taught us that ‘normal’ is a myth – there are just different versions of extraordinary. A  paper in Cell showed that what we once considered disorders are often just alternative operating systems. Your midnight insomnia might be the same genetic variant that kept your ancestors alert enough to guard ancient settlements. Your sensitive stomach could run the protective programming that helped your forebears avoid poisonous plants.

Deep in your DNA, the billion-year story unfolds. Each migraine, food sensitivity, and sleepless night are not random cruel jokes. They’re precise chemical poetry written in the language of survival. Your body is speaking truths carved through ten thousand generations. In this age of mass production, your uniqueness is delicate. It’s nature’s masterwork, still evolving, still perfect in its imperfection.

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